All that Glitters-Something Old, Something New...

Brides through the ages have accessorized witheverything, and you don't want your jewelry to
wedding jewelry to add a finishing touch to theircompete with your gown. Intricate bridal gowns
bridal attire; however, many brides who don'twith elaborate beadwork or hand-sewn lace call
wear jewelry in everyday life jump at the chancefor simple, elegant jewelry while unadorned bridal
to wear it on their wedding day. Is it the specialgowns can support jewelry with more glitter, glitz
occasion or the chance to play dress-up thatand drama.
prompts these brides to don theYou may hear that a white bridal gown requires
unthinkable--jewelry?silver jewelry and that an ivory bridal gown
Those brides too practical to care about jewelryrequires gold jewelry. Unless you specifically
in real life use it on their wedding day to checkselected your bridal gown to match your
off all the "somethings" that bring goodengagement and wedding rings, select gold or
luck--something old, something new, somethingsilver jewelry according to your personal
borrowed, something blue. Whatever your reasonpreference. You're going to find that almost
for wearing jewelry on your wedding day, iteveryone with whom you discuss your wedding
should complement the overall theme of theplans has an opinion on nearly everything, usually
wedding, including the formality of the occasion,stated as a rule.
the design of the wedding dress, and the bridalWhen you select your wedding jewelry, ask
color scheme if your jewelry includes color.yourself the following questions:
The traditional bridal jewelry ensemble consists ofDoes the jewelry fit the occasion? Is it too formal
pearl and/or diamond earrings and necklace, oftenor too casual? Does the jewelry compete with
heirloom pieces (something old, somethingyour wedding dress? Does the necklace follow the
borrowed). Pearls top the list as the most popularcurve of the neckline? For example, if your
bridal jewelry. Originally worn as a symbol ofwedding gown has a round neckline, a choker
purity, pearls are understated, elegant andfollows the neckline. If your gown has a V-neck, a
timeless. If you listen closely and put your ear tolonger necklace follows the neckline. Does your
the ground, you can almost hear that chorus of alljewelry accentuate your best features, or does it
the Mothers of the Brides from here to Timbuktu:attract attention to the wrong area of your face
"Dear, you cannot go wrong with pearls." Foror neckline?
once, Mother's mantra hits the mark.Earring Options
The same holds true for diamonds. You can't goWhether you choose studs, or dangling earrings,
wrong with real diamonds. A rare bride can affordpearls or diamonds, the key words are delicate
to be gaudy and showy with diamonds, and thoseand elegant. If your bridal bouquet and floral
who can know better. It's the blinding array ofdisplays are predominantly pastel, you can select
affordable simulated diamonds that leads toone of the pastels for your jewelry ensemble.
trouble. On your wedding day, less is always morePale pink pearls are stunning with a bouquet of
unless you're Elizabeth Taylor. There's a fine linepastel roses. Out with the rules: wear whatever
between a fairy tale look and gaudy. If you're notmakes you look and feel good.
sure whether you're crossing the line, ask for helpNeckwear Options
from a trusted friend or relative with an air ofHigh necklines are the only necklines that generally
elegance.cannot support neckwear. The neckline is the
If you want to wear pearls and a little flash ofneckwear! If you're wearing a severe neckline
diamonds, the "Sweetheart" Swarovski linesuch as a bateau, you can wear a more dramatic
combines the two (something new), and offersnecklace: a larger, dramatic pendant or a longer
you a choice of colors in pendants and spacers,strand of pearls. When in doubt, a simple pearl
as well as your choice of metals. Swarovskichoker complements most necklines without
crystals and glass pearls are the finest in qualityoverpowering the gown.
from the Czech Republic, world renowned forTiaras
their crystals and semi-precious gems. EachIf you elect to wear a tiara, limit the rest of your
handmade piece is customized to match thejewelry to simple stud or button earrings and
colors in your wedding. Their line also includes glassunderstated neckwear. You chose the tiara to
fresh water pearls. If you want to introduce amake a statement; let it do just that. In fact, you
little color into your wedding jewelry, pick up amay want to forego a necklace when wearing a
color in the bridesmaids' dresses (something blue).tiara so that the eye wanders up to the tiara.
Guidelines for Bridal JewelryWhen selecting your jewelry, determine which
Semi-formal or formal attire guidelines apply toasset you want to emphasize, and use jewelry to
wedding attire--the simpler the dress, the moredraw attention to that asset.
elaborate the jewelry. You can't highlight