The Tradition Of The Diamond Engagement Ring

ttle girls grow up dreaming of the moment thatmost common and accepted piece of its type
their knight in shining armor gets down on onedue to its permanence, beauty, and expense. It is
knee and proposes. It is a romantic gesture thata reflection of the love felt between two people.
is topped off with the perfect accessory, theThat is probably why it is expected that a man
engagement ring. Most little girls dream of thatplunk down tons of money for an engagement
perfect diamond atop their ring finger, gleamingring. The cost of the ring is ultimately up to the
and bright. The engagement ring has a very oldindividual, and how much he wants (or can afford)
and interesting history that began thousands ofto spend. Some guidelines assert that 2-3 months
years ago. The traditional diamond engagementsalary should be shelled out for the ring. That
ring that we know of today is actually a fairlyamount of money can purchase quite a diamond
recent custom.engagement ring!
In most traditions in the Western world, anDiamond engagement rings most commonly come
engagement ring is worn by a woman on thewith solitaire settings, and come in a variety of
third (ring) finger of her left hand, signifying thatdiamond shapes, such as pear, round, princess,
she is engaged to be married. The ring is usuallyheart, marquis, and square. Each shape showcases
presented by a man upon a proposal of marriage,the brilliance of a diamond in a different way, and
and worn by the woman after she accepts hisadds to the individuality of the piece. More often,
proposal. It signifies the agreement to marry, andyou will find that diamond engagement rings are
is usually worn along with the wedding band (onset with more than one stone, and even side
the same finger) for the duration of the woman'sstones. This can mean more smaller diamonds, or
life or the marriage, whichever ends first.more large diamonds, depending on the whim (and
The tradition of the engagement ring can bethe credit line) of the man doing the buying!
traced back as far as Ancient Egypt, Greece, andIt is however, becoming more and more common
Rome. The Ancient Romans held the belief thatto see engagement rings that either contain
the Vena Amoris (Latin for "vein of love") wasanother type of gemstone besides a diamond, or
located in the ring finger of the left hand. It wascontain other colored gemstones with a diamond.
believed that this vein ran directly from the fingerYou often see solitaire set emeralds, rubies, or
to the heart. The circle of the engagement ringsapphires, or any of these stones set with smaller
was also believed to represent the eternal bondsurrounding diamonds. This represents the taste
of love, a romantic notion that is still largelyand individuality of the woman who wears the
believed even today.ring, and often makes for a quite unique and
The design and material of the engagement ringbeautiful ring to wear.
has changed quite a bit through the years. While inThe diamond engagement ring (or an engagement
ancient times an engagement band was fashionedring containing other precious gems) is a
out of hemp, rope, or even lead (in Ancientrepresentation of a promise of eternal love and
Rome) and usually did not contain gemstones,devotion. The possibilities in rings are endless, and
today we traditionally see engagement ringsshould be chosen with care to reflect the
fashioned out of precious metals such as platinumwoman's taste, style, and personality. After all,
or gold, holding a single set stone, which is mostshe will be wearing the ring for a very long time
commonly a diamond.to come.
The diamond engagement ring seems to be the