| Cheating boyfriends leave many signs and with a | | | | could be the excuses your boyfriend is using to |
| little patience, and by giving him lots of time and | | | | cover up his cheating ways. |
| space to cheat, you can catch your cheating | | | | 4. He never answers his cell phone around you. A |
| boyfriend without having to hire a costly private | | | | way to tell if your boyfriend is cheating is if he |
| investigator. We have compiled a list of the top 5 | | | | always turns his ringer off around you or walks |
| signs of a cheating boyfriend so you can tell | | | | out of hearing distance from you. These are big |
| whether or not your boyfriend is cheating. | | | | red flags he may be cheating. If he receives calls |
| Remember to pay attention to details and follow | | | | at odd hours or speaks on the phone in a strange |
| your gut instinct. In addition, if you and your | | | | manner could also be signs he is cheating. |
| boyfriend haven't clearly discussed whether the | | | | 5. He is irritable or criticizes you more. If your |
| two of you are both monogamous in your | | | | boyfriend's behavior suddenly changes, there is a |
| relationship, don't assume he has just | | | | possibility that he may be finding fault with you in |
| "automatically" decided to be faithful to only you. | | | | order to justify his cheating in his mind. That way |
| Maybe in your cheating boyfriend's mind, your | | | | your cheating boyfriend can say you "drove" him |
| relationship isn't serious enough for him to consider | | | | away because of your supposed faults. The |
| being faithful yet. Make sure you are both clear | | | | opposite of this behavior is being overly nice, |
| on where you stand regarding fidelity in your | | | | giving gifts and being lovey-dovey because he |
| relationship. | | | | wants to keep his cake (you) and eat it too (his |
| 1. Lack of intimacy. This doesn't always have to | | | | other girlfriend). |
| be in the form of sex. It can be a decline of | | | | If you discover your boyfriend is cheating, seek |
| touching, cuddling, holding hands or kissing. | | | | support from those around you like friends and |
| 2. He cheated on his old girlfriends. If you can talk | | | | family. Don't get revenge by sleeping with one of |
| to some of his old girlfriends, by all means, do it. | | | | his friends because it just brings you down to his |
| However, make sure to ask his ex-girlfriends in a | | | | low level and you should strive to be the bigger |
| kind and calm manner so they do not become | | | | person. The circumstances of your boyfriend's |
| defensive. A cheating boyfriend will usually repeat | | | | cheating will allow you to decide whether to leave |
| their behavior with their next girlfriend. | | | | or stay. It is very therapeutic to write down your |
| 3. He avoids you. A big sign of a cheating | | | | anger, sadness and disappointment in the form of |
| boyfriend is when he makes up all sorts of | | | | a letter or a cheating boyfriend poem. Allow |
| excuses as to why he can't be with you because | | | | yourself some grieving time and then get right |
| he's spending time with his "other" girlfriend. If he | | | | back into the game of life by filling your life with |
| has to work late, stay after school, is always with | | | | activities that interest you. |
| his friend's or co-workers more than usual, these | | | | |